The Reason For Leaving The Familiar?

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Following God often involves leaving the familiar and comfortable, as seen in the story of Abraham, who was instructed to leave his country, people, and father’s household. This act of leaving can be both liberating and daunting, as it is a way for God to lead the blind. As we approach Purim (February 25th and 26th), the celebration of the salvation of the Jewish people, it is important to consider the significance of leaving behind something familiar and letting go.

Leaving family signifies a profound journey towards independence and self-discovery in the spiritual realm. It represents the shedding of the comfort of familial bonds and embarking on a new journey. God may call us to leave the familiar for the unfamiliar, but it is never easy and requires intentional and disciplined effort. Moving away from what is familiar is never easy, and it is essential to be willing to face the emptiness that comes with it.

Letting go of the familiar is painful, as it leaves behind things that anchored us even as we outgrew them. It is time to leave the familiar and allow deep places to be forged in our lives. If we lead a blind person into the realm of the unfamiliar, they temporarily lose all sense of where they are and where they are going. God was asking him to leave behind his father, family, inheritance, and everything that was familiar to him.

A large chunk of life is a series of letting go of the familiar, and it does not have to be forever. A large chunk of life is a series of letting go of what we know and what we are comfortable with. From a nervous system perspective, shifting out of the more active stages of fight-flight or collapse can help us to leave our past and familiar ways and things behind in order to follow Him. In the process of leaving behind the familiar, often this means leaving the familiar and constantly stepping out of our comfort zone.

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What Is The Biblical Meaning Of Familiarity
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What Is The Biblical Meaning Of Familiarity?

The people struggled to acknowledge Jesus as the Son of God due to their familiarity with Him, questioning His family background and upbringing. Familiarity, in a biblical context, implies an overly comfortable attitude towards God, where individuals presume to know everything about Him. This mindset can lead to a loss of respect, as seen in Jesus' interactions. The Spirit gives life, while over-familiarity with God's commands can breed indifference and carelessness towards them.

The Latin root of "familiar" reflects the idea of household servants, underscoring a misguided sense of control over divine matters. Familiarity is observed as both a blessing and a curse; while it can foster intimacy with God, it can also hinder honor and the flow of divine power. The Bible warns against entering God's presence lightly, emphasizing the importance of recognizing His holiness. Familiarity, described as excessive boldness and presumption, can lead to contempt; as intimacy increases, awe and reverence often diminish.

It is acknowledged that familiarity breeds contempt, making it harder to accept profound truths. The call to familiarity with God should be approached with the right attitude, doing away with presumptions and fostering respect and reverence, essential for genuine connection and spiritual growth. Ultimately, the essence of familiarity must balance intimacy with reverence to engage meaningfully with the divine.

What Does The Familiar Do
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What Does The Familiar Do?

Familiars, often depicted as small household pets or imps, serve as loyal companions and guardians for witches. According to legend, these guides take animal forms and assist witches in their magical endeavors. In gameplay, familiars can perform a touch attack using the caster's attack modifier but have limitations, as they can only use their reaction and must be within reach of the target. Each familiar has unique abilities; for instance, ravens can blind enemies. Warlocks with the Pact of the Chain also gain special familiars like Imps and quasits, which increase their attack frequency and power as they level up.

Summoning a familiar is facilitated by casting the spell "find familiar" at level one, which brings forth a beast with a CR of 0. Familiars act independently but obey commands, rolling their own initiative in combat, although they cannot attack. They serve various purposes, from providing emotional support to undertaking actions such as spellcasting and helping with scouting.

The concept of the familiar has historical roots, with associations to witchcraft and demonology, where they were viewed as spirits or aids sent by the devil. In contemporary practices, particularly among neopagans, familiars retain significant roles, supporting practitioners on their magical journeys.

Is Familiarity Good Or Bad
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Is Familiarity Good Or Bad?

Familiarity offers comfort, yet it can become a barrier that prevents us from exploring the unknown. The issue lies not in familiarity itself, but in how it can evolve into complacency. Research shows that we tend to be drawn to familiar people, as repeated exposure enhances attraction. This phenomenon, known as the mere exposure effect, explains our preference for the familiar, requiring less mental effort to process. Familiarity aids in categorizing experiences but may also lead to contempt, as the saying goes.

While it fosters security and trust in relationships, it can also cause stagnation. Striking a balance between familiarity and new experiences is crucial. The familiarity effect indicates our tendency to favor known over unknown, providing comfort, especially in relationships like marriage. However, excessive familiarity may hinder growth and excitement. Understanding when familiarity is beneficial or detrimental is key to maintaining healthy relationships.

Ultimately, while familiarity can be comforting, it’s essential to recognize its potential drawbacks and seek a healthy mix of the familiar and novel to enrich our lives. Too much comfort can lead to complacency, making it vital to break damaging patterns in our relationships.

What Does It Mean To Be Familiar With God
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What Does It Mean To Be Familiar With God?

Familiarity with God can become detrimental when it leads to a casual approach to His holiness. Encountering God by grace invites us to understand and see things we otherwise wouldn’t; however, repetitive exposure may cultivate a sense of contempt. An example is preparing for a Bible study on David, Abigail, and Nabal, where prior knowledge may result in a superficial engagement rather than a deep, reflective experience.

Incorrect theology fosters casual familiarity, in stark contrast to approaching God with reverence and honoring His holiness. Abraham exemplified the right heart in worship, establishing him as the "father of the faithful."

The spirit of familiarity also challenges our relationship with God, risking an attitude that takes Him for granted. Intimacy with God involves recognizing His delight in us, while the Holy Spirit guides us in truth, contrasting the allure of relying on familiar spirits for comfort and direction. Genuine familiarity with scripture necessitates listening to God's voice without interruption.

This familiarity should emerge from love, honesty, and dependence, reinforcing our communion with Him. The Israelites suffered in the wilderness for becoming too familiar with God, ultimately turning to idols. We are called to worship God genuinely, appreciating His love and striving to deepen our relationship with Him. Ultimately, the primary calling of Christians is to intimately know God and understand His intentions towards us.

What Does It Mean To Let Go Of The Familiar
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What Does It Mean To Let Go Of The Familiar?

Life largely revolves around the process of letting go of the familiar—releasing attachments to what we know, including physical possessions, toxic relationships, and limiting beliefs. While we often desire change, it is human nature to cling to what is comfortable. Practicing letting go can lead to liberation and open up new possibilities for growth. This involves clearing out aspects of our lives that no longer serve a positive purpose, allowing us to focus on the present rather than be burdened by the past.

Letting go is not a one-time action; it requires consistent effort and reflection. Difficult feelings may resurface, and it can take time to fully cleanse emotional wounds. Courage plays a vital role in this process, as it empowers us to face adversity while being true to ourselves.

Letting go demands a conscious decision to release painful memories and thoughts to make space for optimism and future potential. It can be a daunting endeavor, but it is essential for personal growth and self-improvement. The transition from security and familiarity to the unknown can be frightening yet exhilarating. Ultimately, embracing change and releasing what holds us back is crucial for leading a fulfilling life, allowing us to explore new opportunities and become who we are meant to be.

What Is An Example Of Familiarity
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What Is An Example Of Familiarity?

Familiarity refers to the quality of having a good knowledge of something or being well-acquainted. Individuals often exhibit familiarity in social contexts, where it can foster connections, as with the example of someone speaking with the casual ease of an old friend. The term is associated with the familiarity heuristic, a cognitive bias where people prefer familiar things over unknown ones. For instance, when choosing between a restaurant they have visited before and a new one, individuals may favor the familiar option.

Familiarity can also influence social dynamics, as seen in relationships where similarities enhance attraction and comfort. However, excessive familiarity may lead to negative outcomes, such as the diminishing of affection. Social exclusion acts as a counterpoint to familiarity, emphasizing the importance of group integration. Understanding familiarity is essential in various scenarios, including campaigns or learning environments, as seen when someone's familiarity with local issues aids in communication. Ultimately, familiarity encompasses a range of interactions, from intimate relationships to everyday choices, highlighting its significance in human behavior and societal interactions.


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Hi, I’m Freya Gardon, a Collaborative Family Lawyer with nearly a decade of experience at the Brisbane Family Law Centre. Over the years, I’ve embraced diverse roles—from lawyer and content writer to automation bot builder and legal product developer—all while maintaining a fresh and empathetic approach to family law. Currently in my final year of Psychology at the University of Wollongong, I’m excited to blend these skills to assist clients in innovative ways. I’m passionate about working with a team that thinks differently, and I bring that same creativity and sincerity to my blog about family law.

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  • I graduated from high school in 2016 and haven’t been able to finish a book until this year… last month actually I finished one book and am almost done with one more! I decided to give up binging TV shows and doing things that do not serve my purpose. I feel like I’ve grown more in the past few months than the past year! Praise God for his grace and mercy!

  • Love the message, Myron. God has used the story of Abraham and Sarah as a model in my life. I’m 64, and never believed in retiring nor been afraid of learning anything new. Since 2017, I’ve had to restart my life and that means entrepreneurship: writing books, coaching, blogging, doing social media, etc. I too have a similar saying based on Jeremiah 29. “Get comfortable in your discomfort.” Essentially, that’s what God told the Israelites while in the midst of the Babylonian exile. They could still live comfortably, even amid circumstances they didn’t like nor were able to change because God allowed it to happen. I believe in “working” until God calls me home, though it’s really not work because everything I’m doing is to fulfill my purpose for the glory of God. So, age is just that, a number.

  • I stand in Agreement! The first step in change is assessment. How can we change what we do not see. This was a confermation of what the Holy Spirit has revealed to me about being a good steward over my money. As it is written, “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much.” (Luke 16:10) Shout out to all my likeminded brothers and sisters. It is a pleasure being in your company! Brother Myron keep the lessons coming I am ready!

  • Great Word Mr.Dr.MYRON, IT HAS NOT YET APPEARED WHAT I SHALL BE, EVEN AT 75 YEARS OLD,I CAN STILL BE STRONG IN GOD WITH THE GIFTS AND TALENTS HE HAS GIVEN TO ME!”I STILL WRITE !” SING !” RECORD, IN HIS WILL, BETWEEN THE CHORES OF TAKING CARE OF MY SPECIAL SON, GOD GIVES ME FAITH TO KEEP GOING❤, ENJOY YOUR MESSAGES❤🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿💯

  • This is a powerful article. Things are not as difficult as you’ll make it out to be. It’s all an illusion in the mind. 3 weeks ago, I flew to Detroit from Tennessee. Then me and my friend rented a car to drive from Detroit to Westerville, Ohio. I was a little anxious because I was only familiar with the highways in the south. Before I left, I prayed to GOD for a safe and easy trip, there and back to Detroit. I drove those highways and it was a piece of cake.

  • People can keep us stuck, and I am the one who keeps myself stuck more than anyone else! Ouch! There it is, my toes just got stepped on! Thank you Myron for your toe stomping way of saying the truth. Now to stop letting myself convince myself that I am lacking. Step one, listen more to truth motivators, step two read more, step three stop giving power to powerless things and people, step four go for more. God made me for more, Lord I repent that I, just like Eve focus more on my lack than I focus on what you want for me. Lord what do you want for me, what do you want of me? “Your daughter is perusal, show her that her mom even at 65 is alive and well.”

  • Myron, very good teaching 👏 👍 Abraham’s father Terah was the first of his family to take that of moving out, but when came to Haran he stopped and died in Haran (Genesis 11:31,32) >There’s something be said of almost reaching a important goal, and letting bad circumstances and setbacks keep you from realizing that dream God gave you. From Kingsville, Ohio ❤🙂👋

  • I totally agree! The person that God called me to be, is waiting for me in that unfamiliar place! Getting to that unfamiliar place, where my true purpose resides, is uncomfortable, but is definitely worth it. My familiar, comfortable place is writing, my unfamiliar place is transitioning to motivational speaking. You only live once, so I am relentless in discovering that unfamiliar place and truly evolving into the man God called me to be! 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • Praise the Lord! We are so thankful for you, Dr. Golden! …And for yet another challenging encouraging inspiring to-go-higher message!!! Thank you, Dr. Golden! We appreciate you sooo and love to hear all your wonderful stories … the one about your Daddy saying, “It don’t have a brain and we got a brain…” is such a good one to pass on to children and grandchildren!!! (&to remember ourselves!) Thank you! At 74 and 75, we desire to keep on as you have said!!! We love your joy in the Lord that makes you want to never stop moving! Praise the Lord! We heard of an old missionary that was told by the mission board that he should consider “retiring” soon… he answered back, “I will do just that…I will get four new tires and keep right on rollin’!” What a privilege to keep rolling for Jesus! Thank you again, Dr. Myron! We love you!💙

  • I love your teaching and this particular message is speaking to me in so many ways. I bought a guitar a couple of years ago. Haven’t learned yet. I have a musical background albeit small. Music theory is most important because that will allow me to create music. I don’t just want to be taught a song. But anyway. What do you do when you feel like it’s your spouse that’s holding you back and a 21 yo college grad and a 16 yo soon to be graduate. Both are girls. Having a family of girls and a wife is extremely draining because as a father I am charged with being everything to them and nothing to myself. What do I do, just waste away?😢

  • Myron, can you please teach a lesson on the art of being a meek peacemaker AND a powerful warrior? The Lord has been challenging me lately with this, and I’d love to hear the Hebrew ……😂….Even as I ask I hear you saying, “Pick up the book and study it YO-SELF!” 😂 Truth; so just don’t get to it before I get my study done, then we can compare notes.

  • Bro.. Good idea BC I no you love God. But do you need some help? Your background says Money not God. Can you make your theme a little bit more warm like a church type setting. Please don’t turn up like I’m sure you can. I’m just saying.. It feels like you are about to tell me how to be a Millionaire right now. —Just Sayin

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